Separating or divorcing: what you need to do
The GOV.UK website has some clear pages on what you are required to do if you want to separate or divorce.
GOV.UK - Webpages and resources on what you need to do when navigating a divorce or separation.
These pages set out the process to follow in each instance.
You can usually avoid going to court hearings if you can make your own agreements about children, money and property
However, do note that you will still need to send legal paperwork to a court to officially end your relationship, or make legally binding agreements.
You can get help agreeing (using family mediation or hybrid family mediation, or family arbitration, or through collaborative law). Legal aid may be available.
You can usually only get legal aid for court costs if you’re separating from an abusive partner.